A rambling comment

Leads to this line of thought.

Why young girls are so stupid in relationships with guys.

I was over at my Brothers site annoying him with some stupid diatribe when I suddenly start sputtering out this line of thought.
Rather than subject my brother to the rest of this yellow stream. Here it is.

Andrea and me didn't last long because I am atypical for a man. I am a yammering idiot and guys are supposed to be silent but deadly. Girls are all about themselves so all a guy has to do is ask questions and try to listen the female will do the rest and think that you love them. Big problem with that. If a guy doesn't say anything to a girl then that would explain why girls keep getting into bad relationships. They are always saying "I thought I knew him" but clearly they really weren't listening or observing very well. They seem so surprised when the guy goes psycho. If they would have shut up and really listened and looked at the guy they might just have seen something that scared them and dropped the guy before it got started. You might say I gave the girl heads up about me and if they decided they didn't like what they saw I let them go. I figured it was better that way. No hard feelings. In fact most of the girls I broke up with I remained friends which is good for the dating stuff in HS. Most thought I was too much of a nut. but that falls under the heading of forgive and forget. Let go so you can go on with the rest of the day and life.

Something else today's girls gotta stop doing. They are attracted to the warrior men then they try to change them into pansies, and the men are like ehhh? Whats up with that? If I was meant to be a woman I would have been born with the right stuff to be a woman. You know what I need to continue this in my blog. This is interesting me.

Men have had to go out and kill something or someone for I would guess 15000 years and is that attitude going to change overnight? I don't think so. Men are just used and abused then are told that they have to give up the thing that attracted the girl in the first place. Most people guys or girls ain't going for that.

How many times have you heard "You got with me like I am and this is how I am and I ain' t going to change" or how about this one. "This is who I am baby love it or leave it". They leave.. Yet the same person is saying You gotta change. That ain't going anywhere with just about anyone.

Tell you what.....the Golden rule applies. If a woman wants her hubby to be more in touch with his feminine side then a woman better get in touch with her more masculine side and maybe the two will meet in the middle cause I know that most men ain't going all the way female. If you married a masculine man just let him be masculine, cause you might not like gay.

Last but not least. God set a format down in the word and he gave no advice about how to accomplish the.....task. The only advice I can give is be nice. Something that may be one of the most difficult tasks anyone can achieve. Gotta have God cause ain't no real nice with out him.